I just finished A Moveable Feast, and Hemingway just writes
in interesting, but mostly unrelated chapters, so this is what this will be. I
feel like I haven’t written as many blog posts from SA, and I think it’s just
because so much has happened, and I’m only beginning to process little pieces
of it. So here are some of those partially processed pieces.
How can it be that there are only 16 days until we’re home?
I have a pit in my stomach just thinking about the cold of Calgary and actually
having to make school a number one priority. To be honest, I’m surprised at how
much I love South Africa and don’t want to go home. I’ve always fancied myself
a Europe girl, and I think I am, but I also love so much about this place. The
sun, the people, the history, the ocean, the languages and the singing are all
amazing and I will miss them dearly.
If you’ve been reading my family’s blog, you’ll know that
last week was a rough week. There was the hoe visit, and the little boy Sezwe
who touched us, but gave us heavy hearts for the children of this community and
this country. Then, on the 24th, we received the news that a boy in
the community, well known by the Seed of Hope staff was stabbed to death the
day before on his 18th birthday. It broke our hearts all over again,
and the staff and even some of the kids who knew him were pretty shook up. So
many of these young men aren’t making it past 25 because of all of the hate and
violence that goes on in these communities. It’s not just HIV that’s killing
people here, its hate. I look at the teens in Musa’s after school class, and
the little boys on the playground, and I hope that the center has touched them
in a way that will cause them to live in a way that is different than the
example that has been set for them by the older boys in the community. I pray
for the boys every day, and hope that their generation will be a strong one that
will be a shining light in their community.
The young people I’ve met at the Seed are amazing. They’re
so much fun, and so full of life and energy, and I hope they put their whole
hearts into doing something amazing with their lives. In Musa’s class one day
when the team was here he had us all go up one by one and take questions about
ourselves from the class. For the common question “What do you want to be when
you grow up?” many of them answered things like doctors or lawyers, and it made
me sad because even for me, someone saving money for post-secondary, with
decent marks in school and determination, those jobs seem like a lot of work to
attain. Kids from Bhekulwandle aren’t going to have the resources to follow
their dreams, whatever they may be and it makes me so sad. With my own
graduation fast approaching, I still have no idea what I want to do or how I’ll
get there, but no matter what I do, I’ll be able to have the resources to
support myself and live comfortably my entire life, which unfortunately, might
not be the case for many of these future adults that I see every day. These
kids have such awesome spirits, and the people at the Seed of Hope are teaching
them well, so I hope they make it.
Last week was the last week of children’s programs, which
was sad because we’ve loved getting to know the kids and play with them every day.
I’ve become good friends with some of the girls, and they have fun playing with
and braiding my hair, while I try not to cry and remind them that my hair is in
fact attached to my scalp. The girls are so fun, and I have a couple who will
come hold my hand, or turn over my arm to trace the veins in my wrist, or play
with my arm hair (they don’t have any, and they’re totally weirded out by it). I’ve
also really enjoyed getting to know the 11-15 year olds in Musa’s after school
class. They’re such a solid group of kids, and they choose to use their own
time to come to this class to learn life skills, which is cool to me, because
back home, no kid would ever do that. My guess is that it’s not really the “cool
thing” to do here either, so that just makes them coming all the more awesome
in my eyes. They genuinely respect Musa, and want to improve their English and
their futures through coming to the classes. I guess the thing I find the
coolest is the fact that they’re such great friends, and I hope that they can
stick together and hold one another accountable for the things they’ve learned
and just be a new generation of youth and eventually young adults in
Bhekulwandle. They inspire me, and I hope that they’ll do the best they can
with what they have someday.
Tonight while Adam and Lauren went to a youth dinner with
our friends Jeremy and Abby, me, mum, dad, Heather and Dan went for dinner at
the Galleria Mall. I love listening to Seed of Hope talk that is too mature for
me, because I get an inside scoop and I’m constantly taking mental notes, and
when it’s appropriate written notes, in order to remember crazy facts and
pieces of South African culture that are so interesting to me. (Derek’s dad Abe
called me a “Culture Vulture” once and I love it, because I’m truly loving
seeing different cultures on this trip) Heather is full of stories about when
the Seed started, and of the things her and Derek did in Calgary, and about all
of the amazing people they’ve met. Although I only knew Derek when I was very
young, it makes me wish he was here to see my parents and their family in
Africa, and laugh at our Westernness and take us on wild adventures. He is
dearly missed every day, but continues to be an inspiration to so many, and he
lives on through his legacy in the community, and through his son Caleb.
This week flew by so fast, and it was full of school and
Christmas party prep. I’m beyond excited for the long awaited party. We
decorated the center today, and I got assigned the much coveted position of
being in charge of the parachute games, SCORE! It’ll be fun, and I’m excited to
see the kids again after a week of having to hang out with adults. I’m not
mature enough for that…
So yes, 16 days left and it’s stressing me out. On one hand
I’m excited. There are so many dear friends back home that I’ll be overjoyed to
see, and then it’ll be Christmas, and everyone will be jolly and happy and
together… So that’ll be fun until January and the cold, home schooling, everyday
life of Calgary will settle in along with a crippling depression.
So I’m gonna live these last days up!!!
xo
Alanna
I can accept your reasoning for not having as many South Africa posts, and it's fine because your posts are of seriously good quality. Once again, I am moved by reading these fragments of your life in South Africa. So touching. You once again manage to show that you're having an amazing experience out there. You're going to live these last days up? One might even say you're going to have a... living spree!!! Like the title of your blog! Anyhow, 9.2/10.
ReplyDeleteHaha! You were in charge of the parachute games. Of course you were! :)
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